Are you still that orthodox and insane person who thinks that hymen is the flower of a women’s virginity or have you seen any guy or elder ones mumbling that a virgin woman should bleed during her first intercourse? Then be ashamed to meet such people because that person who talks shit like that should have been born in ancient times! I believe that one should be respected for the deeds they are doing but not for their freaking age! Because elder people talk a lot and have made so many customs which they assume are true that doesn’t mean u need to abide by the lines they have drawn.
Our customs have transformed from the way of living to the pointless rules which one has to obey for the sake of society! Seriously? why is everyone obsessed with a woman’s virginity? Have you ever asked a man if he is a virgin? or what if he had to be scared the same way woman was until her wedding night? Doesn’t seem appealing right? the same goes for women. If a woman hasn’t stained her white bedsheet on her wedding night doesn’t mean she had sex before!Health experts say that there are several reasons why women may not bleed during their first sexual intercourse. And that doesn’t have to do with her virginity.
The rupture or bleeding happens during intercourse due to a vestigial tissue called Hymen. Let’s talk about the Hymen you are unaware of and some facts about it:
- The hymen lies outside the vagina.It is a mucous membrane that is a part of your vulva.
- Broken Hymen is not a sin! Just because hymen is broken, it does not mean that she is not a virgin. One can break hymen if they are doing any strenuous sport, dancing, sitting astride on two-wheeler or riding a bicycle. This is because the additional pressure on the vaginal area stretches or even breaks the hymen.
- You must bleed the first time you have sex?Absolutely not! one need not bleed the first time they had sex. This is because one could have stretched or even broken hymen during their childhood itself. So it is not necessary that one will bleed after their first sexual encounter.
If one goes by statistics, only 42% of women might bleed during her first intercourse. Instead of being least bothered about Hymen, girls are actually restoring the hymen with surgery named Hymenoplasty! Hymenoplasty or re-virgination refers to a cosmetic surgery that restores the hymen. Hymenoplasty is a procedure that repairs a torn hymen.
How crazy is that? Technology has evolved but with the help of science women’s virginity could be restored. Kudos to the cosmetologists and gynaecologists who are encouraging surgeries like this instead of creating awareness and counselling the innocent girls who think that hymen is a women’s dignity! But still, there are few Doctors who should be very much appreciated for counselling women regarding this.
According to Anup Dhir, cosmetologist at the Apollo Hospital, “there has been a steady rise in the demand for hymenoplasty surgery over the past few years.There has been an increase of 20-30 percent in these surgeries every year. The majority of women who come for this surgery are in the age group 20 and 30,” says Dhir.
Agreed Anita Kant, head of obstetrics at the Asian Institute of Medical Sciences: “Hymen reconstruction surgery has become an emerging trend over the past three to four years.”
The main reason, experts say, is the prevalent conservative mindset.
“In a conservative society like ours, many women feel that hymen reconstruction is a prerequisite to a good beginning of married life. Also, they feel no matter how modern their partners are, the male mindset remains conservative in this regard and therefore the importance of being a virgin before marriage,” says Kant. Day by day, women who are willing to undergo such surgeries are increasing in number as the procedure is lawful.
However, what all I would like to say is premarital sex may be one of the reasons for rupture of the hymen, but it is not the only reason!
Now erase all those misconceptions from your brain and ask such dogs to shut their filthy mouths! Just start bashing anyone who talks pointlessly regarding this! Just spread the word so that we could at least change that conservative mind of people and save the woman from all this!
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