Being a woman is tough when you have odds to face & dreams to fulfil! In a world of stereotypes, women are constantly judged and meant to be calm, sophisticated & dedicating their whole lives in the name of relations!
Among such double standards, My childhood had only statements from my family,” Why should only a guy? There is nothing wrong if a guy cook/likes pink/isn’t a breadwinner” I grew up with a motive to defy those stereotypes and constant mocking as being a woman is established to be a virtue of selfless soul, chastity & morality.
Pursuing what we want & living a life is treating ourselves because we own every moment of our life! Instead of living free-spirited life, Women have only been surviving due to hypocrites around them constantly staring, judging, bitching, dominating & expecting beyond acceptance of each individual!😓 Be it a girl, women, friend, lover, mother, wife, sister, daughter, are never bound to liberate in the fear of “what people will say”!
In being so-called “Feminine” in the society(learning to braid hair, cook, groom ourself to mingle with people, household chores, dancing, singing, preferring long hair, accepting motherhood, showcasing ethnicity, being only courteous & polite, come early to home, never booze, say yes to whatever people ask, compromise is your only thing, Marry to choose to be dependent, never raise voice to question/fight/own your rights), I was taught defence & surviving skills in my early days instead of constraining myself only to art form! As my zeal to learn new things never faded away, I found learning not only an interest but also a passion to LIVE(not survive!) Apart from being a Book worm, Dancing, Sketching, Writing, Photography, Service in organ donation campaigns lets me breathe & makes me happy that I’m not sulking in boring job anymore because I love to work and don’t sulk when I do. I was always respected for my choices & given my space for priority which every parent needs to do for their child to excel in their terms, not for the sake of what elders hope!
Though I pursued B.E, Diploma in Embedded Systems & worked in real-time projects, administration & operations, I chose writing which started from my college days with a purpose to create awareness! Sticking myself to online creating content, marketing, designing is what made me alive. Being a travel & photography enthusiast, my passion for writing made me a digital marketer, blogger, content creator & marketer today whose word characters have no limitations 😉😋 I travel to write & adapt to different customs with an inspiration to live nomadically!
Live a life where u can question if it was never your fault & raise your head high with no fear & fly with wings higher & sharper!
Once my Dad said,” Darling, Set your soul free, mind liberated & see the wonders u can achieve being free-spirited” ❤️
Feminism is not hating about men but liberating from within irrespective of gender!
Disclaimer: If the above-mentioned content is relevant, it is purely coincidental. If the content is offensive to even read then please do not consider yourself as a feminist ever! If you are able to accept a woman for how she is, what she is & who she is, then feminism sounds right because you never wanted to control her in the first place!